If you have never experienced struggling in your business, and made it successful with no problems whatsoever, your a liar. Seriously. All successful people know what it is like to struggle before they feel any success. Let's face it. You are new, inexperienced, and you are taking on a challenge that everyone you know, will tell you that you are wasting your time. Heard it before? If not, you haven't been doing your job well.
Every successful person will tell you about how hard and impossible things seemed to be in the earlier days of their business. Some failed multiple times and were told over and over to give up and get a job. The only reason they made it to where they were wanting to go is because they did not give up. They have seen all the troubles that you have seen. Felt the pain of failure, seen themselves lose everything but the one thing they needed most. Desire.
It is desire that drives us to do what we do. If you have no desire for something, you see that particular item as useless. If you have no desire to keep moving, than you will give up. That is the secret in all small businesses. You hit a hard struggle, where every angle you search, seems impossible and everything seems useless. You lose the desire, you lose your business.
Those who keep the desire regardless of how it may seem or look, will be the ones who make it to where they originally had planned. Most will give up. Most will listen to the negative remarks that they hear from some of the closest people they have in their life. Few will keep the desire and find a way. But none the less, they have heard all the same remarks you have.
One of my mentors had failed in 10 MLM businesses before making it in the 11th. He went to all his friends and family every time he started a new business, and was rejected all 11 times. He said they began to say bad things to his face when he asked them if they wanted to join him. They thought once again he was making the same mistake for his 11th time. He went on to be the top earner for his business, and made millions of dollars almost every month. They who said he would never go anywhere, are still working a low paying job while he vacations anywhere in the world he pleases. Then he comes home to a business that makes him more money than the week before.
There are many examples of people who faced the same thing you may be facing. But they never quit. It seemed just as impossible to them as it does you. But remember the secret to success. Don't give up, and the answers and break you need will come. Keep your faith, keep a positive mind, and work harder each day than the day before. You will be the next example of why struggling becomes necessary to achieve success.